January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)

...many people have trouble with forgiveness because they have been taught that it is a singular act to be completed in one sitting. That is not so. Forgiveness has many layers, many seasons.

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes in WOMEN WHO RUN WITH THE WOLVES
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Women Who Run With The Wolves forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
All intimate relationships—close friendships and good marriages—are based on continued and mutual forgiveness. You will always trespass upon your friend's sensibilities at one time or another, or your spouse's. The only question is, Will you forgive the other person? And more importantly, Will you forgive yourself? We have to deepen our understanding, make ourselves more equal to circumstances, more easy with what we have been given or not given. We must drink from the deep well of things as they are.
~ David Whyte
David Whyte forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
So let us pick up
the stones over which we stumble,
friends, and build altars...

Let us name the harsh light and
soft darkness that surround us.

Let's claw ourselves out from the graves we've dug.

Let's lick the earth from our fingers.

Let us look up and out and around.
The world is big and wide and wild and wonderful and wicked,
and
our lives are murky, magnificent, malleable, and full of meaning.
Oremus.
Let us pray.
~ Padraig O'Tuama in DAILY PRAYER WITH THE CORRYMEELA COMMUNITY
Padraig O'Tuama Daily Prayer With The Corrymeela Community forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
To live without forgiveness is to live separated from the sacred and from the most basic instincts of our heart. To live with forgiveness is to reveal in each moment the beauty and value of life. To live with forgiveness is to choose in each moment an active role in creating relationships, organizations, communities, and a world that works for everyone.
~ Robin Casarjian in FORGIVENESS
Robin Casarjian Forgiveness forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)
Finally, "love endures all things."... Everything that is tough and brittle shatters; everything that is cynical rots. The only way to endure is to forgive, over and over, to give back that openness and possibility for new beginning which is the very essence of love itself. And in such a way love comes full circle and can fully "sustain and make fruitful," and the cycle begins again, at a deeper place.
~ Cynthia Bourgeault in LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH
Cynthia Bourgeault Love Is Stronger Than Death forgiveness
January 2022 (Vol. XXXV, No. 1)

A blessing is not a sentiment or a question; it is a gracious invocation where the human heart pleads with the divine heart. There is nothing more intimate in a life than the secret under-territory where it anchors...there is no heart that is without this inner divine reference.

~ John O'Donohue in TO BLESS THE SPACE BETWEEN US
To Bless The Space Between Us forgiveness
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Contemplation is that activity which situates us in an open space from which we can observe and contribute to the course of the universe ... that activity that delights in the well-being of all beings, that maintains the world in cohesion.
~ Raimundo Panikkar in BLESSED SIMPLICITY
Raimundo Panikkar Blessed Simplicity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
If you seek Wisdom in the first place, you will find that Wisdom is joyous. If you seek the joy of Wisdom in the first place, you will fall prey to illusions.
~ Valentin Tomberg in MEDITATIONS ON THE TAROT
Valentin Tomberg Meditations On The Tarot wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
If you are searching, you must not stop until you find. When you find, however, you will become troubled. Your confusion will give way to wonder. In wonder you will reign over all things.
~ Gospel of Thomas, Logion 2
wonder
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The person who makes all cares into one care— the care for simply staying present— will be cared for by that presence which is creative love.

~ Kabir Helminski
Kabir Helminski wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

Just sit there right now
Don't do a thing
Just rest
For your separation from God
Is the hardest work in this world
Let me bring you trays of food
And something that you like to drink
You can use my soft words
As a cushion for your head

~ Hafiz from "Cushion for Your Head" in THE GIFT
Hafiz The Gift wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
All those magical, predestined, and irreplaceable people and places are not really that, not really the answer. Rather, we have to stay with the hunger of the question and from its energy fill the space with our own choices, and then with the new things which will be called forth from us in the unexpected poverty and limitation in which our necessarily imperfect choices necessarily situate us.
~ Bruno Barnhart in SECOND SIMPLICITY
Bruno Barnhart Second Simplicity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

I would love to live
like a river flows,
carried by the surprise
of its own unfolding.

~ John O'Donahue from "Fluent" in CONAMARA BLUES
John O'Donohue Conamara Blues wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
States aren't real. They come and go. Only Being is real.
~ Sunyata a.k.a. Alfred Sorensen, Danish mystic
Sunyata wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
The wellsprings of life are bubbling up anew each moment. So when the angel is troubling the waters, it is no time to stand on the bank and recite past wonders.
~ Thomas Kelly in A TESTAMENT OF DEVOTION
Thomas Kelly A Testament Of Devotion wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Faith is a continual inner effort, a continual altering of the mind, of the habitual ways of thought, of the habitual ways of taking everything, of habitual reactions.
~ Maurice Nicoll in THE NEW MAN
Maurice Nicoll The New Man wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
The first task, clearly, is to detach the sense of identity from the descriptions of yourself. This does not mean to find another description that would be the correct one. It means to realize there is no description of you.
~ Beatrice Bruteau in PRAYER AND IDENTITY
Beatrice Bruteau Prayer And Identity wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
The soul is like a wild animal — tough, resilient, savvy, self-sufficient and yet exceedingly shy. If we want to see a wild animal, the last thing we should do is to go crashing through the woods, shouting for the creature to come out. But if we are willing to walk quietly into the woods and sit silently for an hour or two at the base of a tree, the creature we are waiting for may well emerge, and out of the corner of an eye we will catch a glimpse of the precious wildness we seek.
~ Parker J. Palmer in A HIDDEN WHOLENESS
Parker J Palmer A Hidden Wholeness wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

From the place where we are right
Flowers will never grow
In the spring.

The place where we are right
Is hard and trampled
Like a yard.

But doubts and loves
Dig up the world
Like a mole, a plow.

And a whisper will be heard in the place
Where the ruined
House once stood.

~ Yehuda Amichai from "The Place Where We Are Right" in A TOUCH OF GRACE
Yehuda Amichai A Touch Of Grace wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)
Art thou in the darkness?
Mind it not, for if thou dost
it will feed thee more.
But stand still, and act not,
and wait in patience
till light arises out of darkness
and leads thee.
~ James Naylor
James Naylor wonder
December 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 11)

I know that I have life
only insofar as I have love.

I have no love
except it come from Thee.

Help me please to carry
this candle against the wind.

~ Wendell Berry from "I know that I have life" in LEAVINGS
Wendell Berry Leavings wonder
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
The more alert we become to the blessings that flow into us from everything we touch, the more our own touch will bring blessing.
~ Br. David Stendl-Rast
Br. David Stendl-Rast gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
If the only prayer we say to God is "thank you," that is enough.
~ Meister Eckhart
Meister Eckhart gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
... prayer is not asking for what you think you want but asking to be changed in ways you can't imagine. To be made more grateful, more able to see the good in what you have been given instead of always grieving for what might have been.
~ Kathleen Norris in AMAZING GRACE
Kathleen Norris Amazing Grace gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
What fascinates me so much is that every time we decide to be grateful, it will be easier to see new things to be grateful for. Gratitude begets gratitude, just as love begets love.
~ Henri Nouwen in LIFE OF THE BELOVED
Henri Nouwen Life Of The Beloved gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
I have learned to quit speeding through life, always trying to do too many things too quickly, without taking the time to enjoy each day's doings. I think I always thought of real living as being high. I don't mean on drugs – I mean real living was falling in love, or when I got my first job, or when I was able to help somebody . . . In between the highs I was impatient — you know how it is — life seemed so Daily. Now I love the dailiness. I enjoy washing dishes, I enjoy cooking, I see my father's roses out the kitchen window. I like picking beans. I notice everything – birdsongs, the clouds, the sound of wind, the glory of sunshine after two weeks of rain. These are the things I took for granted before [cancer].
~ Olive Ann Burns quoted in MITTEN STRINGS FOR GOD by Katrina Kenison
Olive Ann Burns Mitten Strings For God gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
Why do you spend money for that which is not bread, and your labor for that which does not satisfy?
~ Isaiah 55:2
gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
Desire is a tricky thing, the boiling of the body's wants...
I've been the one who has craved and craved until I could not see
beyond my own greed. There's a whole nation of us.
To forgive myself, I point to the earth as witness.
... tell me,
what it is to be quiet, and yet still breathing...
...to honor this: the length of days. To speak to the core
that creates and swallows, to speak not always to what's
shouting, but to what's underneath asking for nothing...
~ Ada Limon from "Notes on the Below" in THE CARRYING
Ada Limon The Carrying gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

The god of dirt
came up to me many times and said
so many wise and delectable things, I lay
on the grass listening

to his dog voice,
crow voice,
frog voice; now,
he said, and now,
and never once mentioned forever...

~ Mary Oliver from "One or Two Things" in NEW AND SELECTED POEMS: VOLUME ONE
Mary Oliver New And Selected Poems: Volume One gratitude
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Let gratitude be the pillow upon which you kneel to say your nightly prayer.
~ Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

Beneath the intricate network of noise
there's a still more persistent tapestry
woven of whispers, murmurs and chants

It's the heaving breath of the very earth
carrying along the prayer of all things:
trees, ants, stones, creeks and mountains alike

All giving silent thanks and remembrance
each moment, as a tug on a rosary bead
while we hurry past, heedless of the mysteries

And, yet, every secret wants to be told
every shy creature to approach and trust us
if we patiently listen, with all our senses.

~ Yahia Lababidi from "Breath" in BARELY THERE
Yahia Lababidi Barely There gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around.
~ Willie Nelson
Willie Nelson gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)
In ordinary life, we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only with gratitude that life becomes rich.
~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Dietrich Bonhoeffer gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

If you provided a marriage feast
and the thankless guests crowded
at the table, gobbling the food
without tasting it, and shoving
one another away, so that some ate
too much and some ate nothing,
would you not be offended?

Or if, seated at your bountiful table,
your guests picked and finicked
over the food, eating only a little,
refusing the wine and the dessert,
claiming that to fill their bellies
and rejoice would impair their souls,
would you not be offended?

~ Wendell Berry from "Two Questions" in ENTRIES
Wendell Berry Entries gratitude
November 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 10)

When eating fruit, remember the one who planted the tree.

~ Vietnamese proverb
gratitude
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The essence of prayer is thanksgiving.
~ Nan Merrill
Nan Merrill gratitude
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge? Knowledge gives us information. Wisdom gives us light on the way. Knowledge is skill. Wisdom is a quality. Knowledge can be learned. Wisdom can only be distilled from those places in life where knowledge is not enough to really explain what was happening to us, or information failed to resolve what was happening to the other.

~ Joan Chittister in the foreword to WISDOM OF THE BENEDICTINE ELDERS
Joan Chittister Wisdom Of The Benedictine Elders ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

In the sweet territory of silence we touch the mystery. It's the place of reflection and contemplation, and it's the place where we can connect with the deep knowing, to the deep wisdom way.

~ Angeles Arrien
Angeles Arrien ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

At a conference on the Iranian poet Hafez I attended recently, one of the older Persian speakers suddenly leaned forward to the audience and said, "Make your work The Face of the Beloved, and let what you create be her lashes, her mole, her lips." To do that would mean carrying all these gifts, letting the radiance of the World beyond the world shine into each cottage door you come to. Doing so requires both huge strength and the capacity for a kind of visible luminosity, an active principle that can only be born from a great stillness.

~ Martin Shaw in A BRANCH FROM THE LIGHTNING TREE
Martin Shaw A Branch From The Lightning Tree ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

'That'll put the jizz back in you,'
said old Brid, her eyes glinting,
as she handed me a bowl of real water
from the purest well in Gleann an Atha...

'It's had to find a well these days,'
said old Brid, filling up my bowl again.
'They're hiding in rushes and juking in grass,
all choked up and clatty with scum
but for all the neglect they get
their mettle is still true.
Look for your own well, pet,
for there's a hard time coming.
There will have to be a going back to sources.'

~ Cathal Ó Searcaigh in THE WELL (quoted in IF WOMEN ROSE ROOTED by Sharon Blackie)
Cathal Ó Searcaigh The Well ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

Here is what is known: gifts upon gifts cascade down the air without ceasing through the turning days ... there is a vast conversation going on all around us, under our feet and in the surrounding air. The many species of insect and animal life are moving and breathing, eating and excreting, emerging and dying, all part of the web of life which holds us and every being, an immense compass of wordless wisdom, a thousand teachers and guides waiting for our attention.

~ Lindsay McLaughlin from "Holy Ground" on the Friends of Silence blog
Lindsay McLaughlin ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

Wisdom is the art of balancing the known with the unknown, the suffering with the joy; it is a way of linking the whole of life together in a new and deeper unity ... Wisdom is the art of living in rhythm with your soul, your life, and the divine.

~ John O'Donohue in ANAM CARA
Anam Cara ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

In the immense field of divine compassion, countless small life fields are interwoven with each other. When human hearts deepen through some form of contemplation, there emerges in them an intuition of human oneness prior to all separation ... a "communion of saints". In each religion's communal story, there is a way of handing on from generation to generation this transforming perception of universal solidarity in the Mystery. We do not learn such wisdom on our own. We receive this wisdom from someone else.

~ Carolyn Gratton in THE ART OF SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE
Carolyn Gratton The Art Of Spiritual Guidance ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

Still, what I want in my life
is to be willing
to be dazzled—
to cast aside the weight of facts

and maybe even
to float a little
above this difficult world.
I want to believe I am looking

into the white fire of a great mystery.
I want to believe that the imperfections are nothing—
that the light is everything—that it is more than the sum
of each flawed blossom rising and fading. And I do.

~ Mary Oliver from "The Ponds" in NEW AND SELECTED POEMS, VOL. ONE
Mary Oliver Vol. One, New And Selected Poems ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

"We are knee-deep in a river, searching for water," writes Kabir Helminski, a contemporary Wisdom teacher in the Sufi lineage, using a vivid image to capture the irony of our contemporary plight. The sacred road maps of wholeness still exist in the cosmos. There is a vision large enough to contain not only our minds but also our hearts and souls; an understanding of our place in the divine cosmology large enough to order and unify our lives and our planet. These truths are not esoteric or occult in the usual sense of the terms; they are not hidden from sight. In the Christian West they are strewn literally throughout the entire sacred tradition: in the Bible, the liturgy, the hymnody and chants, the iconography. But to read the clues, it is first necessary to bring the heart and mind and body into balance, to awaken. The One can be known—not in a flash of mystical vision but the clarity of unitive seeing.

~ Cynthia Bourgeault in THE WISDOM WAY OF KNOWING
Cynthia Bourgeault The Wisdom Way Of Knowing ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

I too was a stranger at first in this dark dripping forest perched at the edge of the sea, but I sought out an elder, my Sitka Spruce grandmother with a lap wide enough for many grandchildren. I introduced myself, told her my name and why I had come.

~ Robin Wall Kimmerer in BRAIDING SWEETGRASS
Robin Wall Kimmerer Braiding Sweetgrass ancient wisdom
October 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 9)

Resplendent and eternal is Wisdom,
readily perceived by those who listen
in the Silence of the heart.
Wisdom hastens to make Herself known;
She is available to all who love and seek Her;
who awakens Her from within
will not be disappointed;
for Wisdom awaits at the threshold.

~ Nan Merrill in WALKING WITH WISDOM
Nan Merrill Walking With Wisdom ancient wisdom
September 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 8)
Learning to love differently is hard
Love with the hands open, love
With the doors banging on their hinges
The cupboard unlocked, the wind
Roaring and whimpering in the rooms
Rustling the sheets and snapping the blinds
That thwack like rubber bands
In an open palm.
~ Marge Percy from "To Have Without Holding" in THE MOON IS ALWAYS FEMALE
Marge Percy The Moon Is Always Female women's wisdom
September 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 8)
I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.
~ Rosa Parks with Gregory J. Reed in QUIET STRENGTH
Rosa Parks Quiet Strength women's wisdom
September 2021 (Vol. XXXIV, No. 8)
When sleeping women wake, mountains move.
~ Chinese Proverb
women's wisdom