The small man
Builds cages for everyone
He
Knows.
While the sage,
Who has to duck his head
When the moon is low,
Keeps dropping keys all night long
For the
Beautiful
Rowdy
Prisoners.

~ Hafiz, translated by Daniel Ladinsky in THE GIFT
Hafiz The Gift resentment
The time in between my clapping is ma [Japanese word for "emptiness"]. If you just have non-stop action with no breathing space at all, it's just busyness, but if you take a moment, then the tension building...can grow into a wider dimension. If you just have constant tension...all the time, you just get numb.
~ Hayao Miyazaki
Hayao Miyazaki resentment
For nothing is fixed, forever and forever and forever, it is not fixed; the earth is always shifting, the light is always changing, the sea does not cease to grind down rock. Generations do not cease to be born, and we are responsible to them because we are the only witnesses they have.

The sea rises, the light fails, lovers cling to each other, and children cling to us. The moment we cease to hold each other, the moment we break faith with one another, the sea engulfs us and the light goes out.
~ James Baldwin, from his essay "Nothing Personal"
James Baldwin resentment
Awaken me, O Mighty One,
in your holy mercy,
that I might be free of fear...

With boundless confidence,
I abandon myself to You...
For You deliver me from illusion,
and through Love,
my heart opens to Wisdom.
~ Nan Merrill from "Psalm 54" in PSALMS FOR PRAYING
Nan Merrill Psalms For Praying resentment
Truth without love is not transformational truth. Truth from a cruel heart undoes its message.
~ Richard Rohr in THE TEARS OF THINGS
Richard Rohr THE TEARS OF THINGS resentment

To create the world that exemplifies our values, we need to liberate ourselves from enemy images — the thinking that says there is something wrong with the people whose actions or values we don't agree with... Now, that's not easy to do. Why? Because it's hard to believe that those who are doing things far outside of our value system are human beings like the rest of us. It's very challenging.

~ Marshall B. Rosenberg in SPEAK PEACE IN A WORLD OF CONFLICT
Marshall B. Rosenberg SPEAK PEACE IN A WORLD OF CONFLICT resentment

Heart is sea,
language is shore.
Whatever sea includes,
will hit the shore.

~ Rumi
resentment
... we should be careful

Of each other, we should be kind While there is still time.
~ Philip Larkin from "The Mower," in COLLECTED POEMS
Philip Larkin Collected Poems resentment
You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you... For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have?...And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others?
~ Matthew 5:43-47
resentment
If we work for peace out of anger, we will never succeed. Peace is not an end. It can never come about through non-peaceful means.
~ Thich Nhat Hanh in FOR A FUTURE TO BE POSSIBLE
Thich Nhat Hanh FOR A FUTURE TO BE POSSIBLE resentment

You cannot buy the revolution. You cannot make the revolution. You can only be the revolution. It is in your spirit, or it is nowhere.

~ Ursula K. Le Guin in THE DISPOSSESSED
Ursula K. Le Guin THE DISPOSSESSED resentment
If you have resentment you want to be free of, if you will pray for the person or thing that you resent, you will be free. If you will ask in prayer for everything you want for yourself to be given to them, you will be free.
~ from "Prayer for Resentment" in ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS BIG BOOK
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS BIG BOOK resentment
The only sufficient answer is to give up the animosity and try forgiveness, to try to love our enemies and to talk to them and (if we pray) to pray for them. If we can't do any of that, then we must begin again by trying to imagine our enemies' children who, like our children, are in mortal danger because of enmity that they did not cause.
~ Wendell Berry in Orion Magazine, March/April 2003
Wendell Berry resentment
Although the wind
blows terribly here,
the moonlight also leaks
between the roof planks
of this ruined house.
~ Izumi Shikibu from "Although the wind...," translated by Jane Hirshfield and Mariko Aratani in THE INK DARK MOON
Izumi Shikibu The Ink Dark Moon resentment

Either you will
go through this door
or you will not go through.

If you go through
there is always the risk
of remembering your name.

Things look at you doubly
and you must look back
and let them happen.

If you do not go through
it is possible
to live worthily

to maintain your attitudes
to hold your position
to die bravely

but much will blind you,
much will evade you,
at what cost who knows?
The door itself makes no promises.
It is only a door.

~ Adrienne Rich, "Prospective Immigrants Please Note," in SNAPSHOTS OF A DAUGHTER-IN-LAW: POEMS
Adrienne Rich SNAPSHOTS OF A DAUGHTER-IN-LAW: POEMS resentment
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
In the summer
at day's end
we notice our salted skin
(how it clings and crusts as silt deposits)
touch lightly the tomato-red sheen in that space just below the eyes.

Wearied bodies. Sticking flesh. Warmed and weighted eyes. The smell of ourselves.
We are caked with the soil that draws up seeds to plants
and the dampnesses that quench them.
The water runs off us, coffee rich against the porcelain sink.

Who was it that likened sin to dirt? Who declared purity a vast white void?
Who never noticed the gospel of a body
in the summer
at day's end?
~ Joy Houck Bauer
Joy Houck Bauer stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
Our gardens are gifts to us. They can also become our teachers. As guardians of these little patches of the planet, we can learn to work hand in hand with the land to restore each other's health. Every fragment of soil, plant, or tree that becomes recognized, respected, and loved has a healing effect on the entire planet.
~ Mary Reynolds in THE GARDEN AWAKENING
Mary Reynolds THE GARDEN AWAKENING stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
Raimundo Panikkar ... said the future will not be a new, big tower of power. Our hope in the future is the hope into well-trodden paths from house to house, these well-trodden paths from house to house. That is the image that holds a lot of promise for our future.
~ Brother David Steindl-Rast, OSB from "How to Be Grateful in Every Moment" podcast interview with Krista Tippett
Brother David Steindl-Rast stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
The Bible is more communal than individual.
Jesus teaches us to pray "Our Father" not "My Father."
Paul uses the phrase, "our Lord" 53 times, & "my Lord" only 1 time.
"Jesus is my personal savior" is not found in Scripture.
We are the people of God.
We belong to each other.
~ Rich Villodas
Rich Villodas stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
When all the good in you
Starts arguing with all the bad in you
About who you really are,
Never let the bad in you
Make the better case
~ Andrea Gibson, "All the Good in You" in LORD OF THE BUTTERFLIES
Andrea Gibson LORD OF THE BUTTERFLIES stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
Where do we begin?
Begin with the heart
~ Julian of Norwich
Julian of Norwich stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
It is a little embarrassing that, after forty-five years of research and study, the best advice I can give to people is to be a little kinder to each other.
~ Aldous Huxley
Aldous Huxley stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
I thought I'd live a louder life
I'd learn a lot and get it right
I'd rent a loft I'd drink all night
I'd be a living archetype
And in a blinding flash of light
I'd see that one great insight
But silence called me deeper still
Like nothing else ever will
~ Carrie Newcomer from her song, "I Meant to Do My Work Today"
Carrie Newcomer stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
Teach us to care and not to care
Teach us to sit still
~ T.S. Eliot from "Ash Wednesday" in T. S. ELIOT: COLLECTED POEMS
T.S. Eliot T. S. ELIOT: COLLECTED POEMS stories
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Don't say that I will depart tomorrow—
even today I am still arriving.

Look deeply: every second I am arriving
to be a bud on a Spring branch,
to be a tiny bird, with still-fragile wings,
learning to sing in my new nest,
to be a caterpillar in the heart of a flower,
to be a jewel hiding itself in a stone.

I still arrive, in order to laugh and to cry,
to fear and to hope.
The rhythm of my heart is the birth and death
of all that is alive...

...Please call me by my true names,
so I can hear all my cries and laughter at once,
so I can see that my joy and pain are one.

Please call me by my true names,
so I can wake up
and the door of my heart
could be left open,
the door of compassion.
~ Thich Nhat Hanh from "Please Call Me By My True Names" in CALL ME BY MY TRUE NAMES
Thich Nhat Hanh Call Me By My True Names stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
We succeeded in taking that picture [from deep space], and, if you look at it, you see a dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever lived, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species, lived there on a mote of dust, suspended in a sunbeam. The earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena ... It's been said that astronomy is a humbling, and I might add, a character building experience. To my mind, there is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly and compassionately with one another and to preserve and cherish that pale blue dot, the only home we've ever known.
~ Carl Sagan in THE PALE BLUE DOT
Carl Sagan THE PALE BLUE DOT stories
September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)
People do meditation to find psychic alignment. That's why people do psychotherapy and analysis. That's why people analyze their dreams and make art. That is why some contemplate tarot cards, cast I Ching, dance, drum, make theater, pry out the poem, and fire up their prayers. That's why we do all the things we do. It is the work of gathering all the bones together. Then we must sit at the fire and think about which song we will use to sing over the bones, which creation hymn, which re-creation hymn. And the truths we tell will make the song.
~ Clarissa Pinkola Estés in WOMEN WHO RUN WITH THE WOLVES
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Women Who Run With The Wolves stories
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)

The world existed.

Before anything else, it was all fire: Golden, molten, radiating, relentlessly bright flame.

Nothing was hidden. But nothing could be seen either, because it would melt the eyes. Even God was nervous to approach the world.

God longed for the dark things. Ash meant everything had burned, but it also meant substance had cooled. God could gaze upon charcoal and see all the folds and tunnels that ran through it, marking a flame's path. God could hold it in the hand, stick it in the pocket, carry it elsewhere.

God said, “Let there be shadows, where I can hide from the light, rest from the day, and cool my sweat." A shadow descended over the place God now sat resting.

God imagined the heat itself could rest. God laughed and clapped. “Yes! I do not want to kill the heat forever, just offer it relief from its relentless work. Let it take on another personality from time to time." God filled a tub with silver movement, with blue sploshing. God called the magic “water," and it was good.

Gently, curiously, slowly, God upturned the tub over the flames whose pulsing screams snuffed into a hissing whimper, a relief, another way to exist.

God stopped and looked around the world as it stood. True, many corners still pulsed with energy and heat, but the harshness of it dimmed because there were ashes to replenish the ground. And there was water to offer to the ashes (imagine what magic might now sprout there!). And there were cool, shadowy corners to nap in. Or, God now considered, where one could invite someone else to sit, too.

Now God longed for “Someone Else." It was a desire even stronger than when God had wanted ashes, or shadows, or water. Out of this great desire — this love — God conjured all the bacteria, the fungi, the plants, the animals, the humans. And the world now hummed: with the pulses, the hisses, the sploshes, the snores, the chatter of it all.

~ Joy Houck Bauer
Joy Houck Bauer imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
In the gift of this new day,
in the gift of the present moment,
in the gift of time and eternity intertwined,
let us be grateful,
let us be attentive,
let us be open to what has never happened before,
in the gift of this new day,
in the gift of the present moment,
in the gift of time and eternity intertwined.
~ J. Philip Newell in SOUNDS OF THE ETERNAL
J. Philip Newell SOUNDS OF THE ETERNAL imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
That your world is in agony is no reason to turn your back on it, or to try to escape into private “spiritual" pursuits. Rilke reminded me that I had the strength and courage to walk out into the world as into my own heart, and to “love the things / as no one has thought to love them."
~ Joanna Macy in RILKE'S BOOK OF HOURS
Joanna Macy Rilke's Book Of Hours: Love Poems To God imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)

How shall the mind keep warm
save at spectral fires—how thrive
but by the light of paradox?

~ Robert Hayden from “Stars" in COLLECTED POEMS
Robert Hayden Collected Poems imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)

Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

~ Dr. Howard Thurman
Dr. Howard Thurman imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
Isn't that the saddest thing in the world... A comma forced to be a period?
~ Ocean Vuong in ON EARTH WE'RE BRIEFLY GORGEOUS
Ocean Vuong ON EARTH WE'RE BRIEFLY GORGEOUS imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
Making sense of the world takes so many forms! Some of them just engage the lineage of despair more explicitly than others... you could expand... to so many other forms of art, including the unheralded art of living our everyday lives, and the creation and maintenance of connection. What does it look like to cherish other people? To cultivate our empathy for one another, even when our own experiences are so disparate? If a burning world is our lived reality, how do we continue to steer ourselves towards the sort of compassion that might create a different one?

...But we do have to figure out how to create narratives — amongst people who hold very similar beliefs, but also with those who do not... All of those ideologies are, at heart, antidotes to the deep sadness at the heart of everyday life. We need better ones.
~ Anne Helen Petersen from “The World Has Always Been On Fire. What Now?" in her Substack newsletter; May 28, 2025
Anne Helen Petersen imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
I've been thinking about the way, when you walk
down a crowded aisle, people pull in their legs
to let you by. Or how strangers still say “bless you"
when someone sneezes, a leftover
from the Bubonic plague. “Don't die," we are saying.
And sometimes, when you spill lemons
from your grocery bag, someone else will help you
pick them up. Mostly, we don't want to harm each other.
We want to be handed our cup of coffee hot,
and to say thank you to the person handing it. To smile
at them and for them to smile back. For the waitress
to call us honey when she sets down the bowl of clam chowder,
and for the driver in the red pick-up truck to let us pass.
We have so little of each other, now. So far
from tribe and fire. Only these brief moments of exchange.
What if they are the true dwelling of the holy, these
fleeting temples we make together when we say, “Here,
have my seat," “Go ahead — you first," “I like your hat."
~ Danusha Lameris, “Small Kindnesses," in HEALING THE DIVIDE: POEMS OF KINDNESS AND CONNECTION
Danusha Laméris HEALING THE DIVIDE: POEMS OF KINDNESS AND CONNECTION imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
We can never speak about God rationally as we speak about ordinary things, but that does not mean we should give up thinking about God. We must push our minds to the limits of what we could know, descending ever deeper into the darkness of unknowing.
~ Joy Williams in 99 STORIES OF GOD
Joy Williams 99 STORIES OF GOD imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)

We must lay one brick at a time, take one step at a time; we can be responsible only for the one action of the present moment. But we can beg for an increase of love in our hearts that will vitalize and transform all our individual actions, and know that God will take them and multiply them, as Jesus multiplied the loaves and fishes.

~ Dorothy Day in THE RECKLESS WAY OF LOVE
Dorothy Day THE RECKLESS WAY OF LOVE imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
Think in ways you've never thought before.
If the phone rings, think of it as carrying a message
Larger than anything you've ever heard,
Vaster than a hundred lines of Yeats.

...When someone knocks on the door, think that he's about
To give you something large: tell you you're forgiven,
Or that it's not necessary to work all the time, or that it's
Been decided that if you lie down no one will die.
~ Robert Bly from “Things to Think" in MORNING POEMS
Robert Bly MORNING POEMS imagination
July/August 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 7)
The world changes according to the way people see it, and if you alter, even but a millimeter the way people look at reality, then you can change it.
~ James Baldwin from the interview “James Baldwin Writing and Talking“ in the New York Times, 1979
James Baldwin imagination
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
Behold how good and pleasant
it is
when brothers and sisters
dwell in unity!
It is like vistas seen from
atop a mountain one has
Or like the stillness of a sunset
climbed...
after a long day's work.

It is like a shimmering rainbow
breaking through a summer rain.
When men and women dwell in
` harmony,
the star of Truth appears.
~ Nan Merrill, "Psalm 133" in PSALMS FOR PRAYING
Nan Merrill Psalms For Praying community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
The journey toward inner truth is too taxing to be made solo: lacking support, the solitary traveler soon becomes weary or fearful and likely to quit the road.

The path is too deeply hidden to be traveled without company: finding our way involves clues that are subtle and sometimes misleading, requiring the kind of discernment that can happen only in dialogue.

The destination is too daunting to be achieved alone: we need community to find the courage to venture into the alien lands to which the inner teacher may call us.
~ Parker Palmer in A HIDDEN WHOLENESS
Parker Palmer A Hidden Wholeness community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
We men and women are all in the same boat, upon a stormy sea. We owe to each other a terrible and tragic loyalty.
~ G.K. Chesterton in THE COLLECTED WORKS OF G.K. CHESTERTON VOLUME 28
G.K. Chesterton THE COLLECTED WORKS OF G.K. CHESTERTON VOLUME 28 community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
What you need to know about me
is not that I survived the war
or that I write poetry
or that I am African,
but that I live in this world
just like you.

That I wake up every morning
to get the children ready for school,
that I comb my hair
and worry about its gray,
that I love my strong coffee
in the morning...

That I listen to music
and laugh out loud
when the mood is right,
that I cry when I read the news...

What you need to know about me
is not what country I am from
or how many languages I speak
or how I pronounce my name,
but that I believe
we are connected
by the simplest thread—
the need to be seen,
to be held,
to be heard.
~ Patricia Jabbeh Wesley, from "What You Need to Know About Me"; read more in PRAISE SONG FOR MY CHILDREN
Patricia Jabbeh Wesley PRAISE SONG FOR MY CHILDREN community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
The wisdom of a true community often seems miraculous. This wisdom can perhaps be explained in purely secular terms...There are times, however, when this wisdom seems to my religious eye to be more a matter of divine spirit and possible divine intervention. This is one of the reasons why the feeling of joy is such a frequent concomitant of the spirit of community. The members feel that they have been temporarily—at least partially—transported out of the mundane world of ordinary preoccupations. For the moment it is as if heaven and earth had somehow met.
~ M. Scott Peck in THE DIFFERENT DRUM
M. Scott Peck THE DIFFERENT DRUM community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
The wild goose is a Celtic symbol of the Holy Spirit. Geese in a flock have greater range and fly faster than single geese as they benefit from the lift of their wings. When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back into formation and another flies at the point position. We fly in sacred community, interdependent with one another.
~ from the Iona Community
community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
Community is first and foremost a gift of the Holy Spirit, not built upon mutual compatibility, shared affection, or common interests but upon having received the same divine breath, having been given a heart set aflame by the same divine fire, and having been embraced by the same divine love.
~ Henri Nouwen, "A Meditation on Community" in THE GENESEE DIARY
Henri Nouwen THE GENESEE DIARY community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)

I want a new ritual for when we meet each other—
strangers or beloveds, friends or rivals, elders or children.
It begins by holding each other's eyes
the way we behold sunrises or the first cherry blooms,
which is to say we assume we'll find beauty there.
And perhaps some display of open hands—
a gesture with palms up—that suggests both
I offer myself to you and I receive you.
There should be a quiet moment in which
we hear each other breathe—
knowing it's the sound of the ocean inside us.
If there are words at all, let them be formed
mostly of vowels so they're heard more as song
than as spitting, more like river current and less
like throwing stones, words that mean something like
I do not know what you carry, but in this moment
I will help you carry it. Or something like,
Everything depends on us treating each other well.
And if we said it enough, perhaps we'd believe it,
and if we believed it enough, perhaps we'd live it,
treating every other human like someone
who holds our very existence in their hands,
like someone whose life has been given us to serve,
even if it's only to walk together safely down the street,
hold a door, pass the salt, share a sunset,
offer a smile, and say with our actions you belong.

~ Rosemary Wahtola Trommer, "When we greet each other," on her blog A HUNDRED FALLING VEILS
Rosemary Wahtola Trommer community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
But no matter the medicinal virtues of being a true friend or sustaining a long close friendship with another, the ultimate touchstone of friendship is not improvement, neither of the other nor of the self, the ultimate touchstone is witness, the privilege of having been seen by someone and the equal privilege of being granted the sight of the essence of another, to have walked with them and to have believed in them, and sometimes just to have accompanied them for however brief a span, on a journey impossible to accomplish alone.
~ David Whyte in CONSOLATIONS
David Whyte Consolations community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
Our communities may not conform to any blueprint, but we know we have them...I once knew two elderly shut-ins, longtime friends, both of whom lived alone. Every day they watched a religious program on television and as it ended each would offer a prayer for the other. They knew who formed their unique community...

Why is community a near-universal experience—especially for people of faith? One person put it this way: "Community is God's strategy for reaching the world." That's a neat way of saying that as community—rather than as individuals—we model what God has in mind for humanity.
~ Joe Nangle, "Community as Home,"in Sojourners Magazine, May 1994
Joe Nangle community
June 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 6)
Community is the container in which the sacred is remembered, practiced, and made real.
~ Sobonfu Somé, read more in WELCOMING SPIRIT HOME
Sobonfu Somé Welcoming Spirit Home community