Though we know one another's names and recognize one another's faces, we never know what destiny shapes each life. The script of individual destiny is secret; it is hidden behind and beneath the sequence of happenings that is continually unfolding for us. Each life is a mystery that is never finally available to the mind's light or questions. That we are here is a huge affirmation; somehow life needed us and wanted us to be.

To sense and trust this primeval acceptance can open a vast spring of trust within the heart. It can free us into a natural courage that casts out fear and opens up our lives to become voyages of discovery, creativity, and compassion. No threshold need be a threat, but rather an invitation and a promise. Whatever comes, the great sacrament of life will remain faithful to us, blessing us always with visible signs of invisible grace. We merely need to trust.

~ John O'Donohue in TO BLESS THE SPACE BETWEEN US
John O'Donohue To Bless The Space Between Us uncertainty
What is the difference
Between your experience of Existence
And that of a saint?
The saint knows
That the spiritual path
Is a sublime chess game with God
And that the Beloved
Has just made such a Fantastic Move
That the saint is now continually
Tripping over Joy
And bursting out in Laughter
And saying, 'I Surrender!'
Whereas, my dear,
I am afraid you still think
You have a thousand serious moves
~ Hafiz, "Tripping Over Joy," translated by Daniel Ladinsky in I HEARD GOD LAUGHING: POEMS OF HOPE AND JOY
Hafiz I HEARD GOD LAUGHING: POEMS OF HOPE AND JOY uncertainty
You have to allow disruption in your life. You have to take account of the parts of yourself you would throw out. You have to look in the places you look away from. And this is so the divine comes into birth. The divine wishes to come into birth in every moment.

True love and prayer are learned in the moment when prayer has become impossible, and the heart has turned to stone.
~ Thomas Merton in NEW SEEDS OF CONTEMPLATION
Thomas Merton New Seeds Of Contemplation uncertainty
Sometimes a person wakes
believing they are a storm.
It is hard to deny it, what,
with all the rain pouring out
of the gutters of the mind,
all the gusts blowing through,
all the squalls, all the gray.
But by afternoon, it seems obvious
they are a garden about to sprout.
By night, it is clear they are a moon—
luminous, radiant, faithful.
That's the danger, I suppose,
of believing any frame.
Let me believe, then, in curiosity,
in wonder, in change.
Let me trust how essential it is
to stumble into the trough
of the unknown, marvel how
trough becomes wings becomes
faith becomes math. Let me trust
uncertainty is a sacred path.
~ Rosemary Wahtola Trommer, "Never the Same," on her blog A Hundred Falling Veils
Rosemary Wahtola Trommer uncertainty
The outer work can never be small if the inner work is great. And the outer work can never be great if the inner work is small.
~ Meister Eckhart in THE REINVENTION OF WORK
Meister Eckhart The Reinvention Of Work uncertainty
We see that it is not the task of Christianity to provide easy answers to every question, but to make us progressively aware of a mystery. God is not so much the object of our knowledge as the cause of our wonder.
~ Kallistos Ware in THE LIVING GOD
Kallistos Ware THE LIVING GOD uncertainty
We change the world not by what we say or do but as a consequence of what we have become.

The truth of one's Self can be discovered in everyday life. To live with care and kindness is all that is necessary. The rest reveals itself in due time. The commonplace and God are not distinct.
~ David Hawkins in POWER VS. FORCE
David Hawkins POWER VS. FORCE uncertainty
My heart is solitary now.
It finds no companionship anywhere
And no wish to find any.

My sole desire is You,
And You are always absent.

Can one love absence so intensely
That even your presence
Seems like an intrusion?

I move around in aimless circles.
Rituals and sacred symbols,
Once treasured symbols of relating to You
Are meaningless to me now.

They communicate nothing of You,
Who are everything to me
But for whom and from whom I feel no love,
Nor hope of fulfillment.

I am as one turned inside out,
And there is nothing there — not You, not me.

If this is union, there is neither two in One,
Nor One without another.

I long to relate to everyone,
Yet lack the capacity to relate to anyone.

There is only your boundless presence,
That treats me like a thing without a heart,
Except perhaps a broken heart.

For the God I thought I knew
No longer exists
~ Thomas Keating, "Twilight of the Self," in THOMAS KEATING: THE MAKING OF A MODERN CHRISTIAN MYSTIC
Thomas Keating THOMAS KEATING: THE MAKING OF A MODERN CHRISTIAN MYSTIC uncertainty

The Witness is that which is capable of observing the flow of what is—without interfering with it, commenting on it, or in any way manipulating it. The Witness simply observes the stream of events both inside and outside the mind-body in a creatively detached fashion, since, in fact, the Witness is not exclusively identified with either. In other words, when you realize that your mind and your body can be perceived objectively, you spontaneously realize that they cannot constitute a real subjective self. As Huang Po put it, "Let me remind you, the perceived cannot perceive."

~ Ken Wilbur in PSYCHOLOGIA PERENNIS
Ken Wilbur PSYCHOLOGIA PERENNIS uncertainty

Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing. We think the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy.

To stay with that shakiness—to stay with a broken heart, with a rumbling stomach, with the feelings of hopelessness and wanting to get revenge—that is the path of true awakening. Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic—this is the spiritual path. Getting the knack of catching ourselves, of gently and compassionately catching ourselves is the path of the warrior. We catch ourselves one zillion times as once again, whether we like it or not, we harden into resentment, into a sense of relief, a sense of inspiration.

~ Pema Chodron in WHEN THINGS FALL APART: HEART ADVICE FOR DIFFICULT TIMES
Pema Chodron WHEN THINGS FALL APART: HEART ADVICE FOR DIFFICULT TIMES uncertainty
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Stuff your eyes with wonder, live as if you'd drop dead in ten seconds. See the world. It's more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories.
~ Ray Bradbury
Ray Bradbury small things
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Biophilia (noun): A hypothetical human tendency to interact or be closely associated with other forms of life in nature: A desire or tendency to commune with nature
~ Merriam-Webster Dictionary
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Everyone talks about how traveling back in time and doing something small, like killing a butterfly, can drastically change the present, but no one talks about how doing something small today, like planting a tree, can drastically change the future.
~ r/showerthoughts on reddit
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Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely. It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good.
~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes in DO NOT LOSE HEART
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Do Not Lose Heart small things
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That is the paradox of the epidemic: that in order to create one contagious movement, you often have to create many small movements first.

~ Malcolm Gladwell in THE TIPPING POINT
Malcolm Gladwell THE TIPPING POINT small things
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Recognizing "enoughness" is a radical act in an economy that is always urging us to consume more.
~ Robin Wall Kimmerer in THE SERVICEBERRY: ABUNDANCE AND RECIPROCITY IN THE NATURAL WORLD
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You have seen so much of the outer world and had so many experiences of people, places, and things—and of course those experiences will keep coming. But now, in the second half of your life, as the outer world seems more unstable and dangerous than ever, we want you to take the same rapacious curiosity that once thrust you all over the planet with a hungry, fascinated appetite, and we want you to turn it inward.

~ Tara Roberts, from Elizabeth Gilbert's Substack "Letters From Love"
Tara Roberts small things
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If I can't dance, it's not my revolution.
~ Quote attributed to Emma Goldman
Emma Goldman small things
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Jubilee, wasn't it a jubilee!
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
We were singing out together —
shouting revelries.
Jubilee‚ Lord wasn't it a jubilee!

Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
We were dancing by the river,
dancing by the sea,
Bouncing all the babies,
up and down upon our knees,
Laughing out happy,
crying out free;
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!

We were banging on the banjos,
picking on guitars,
Blowing out the bass notes,
on the crockery jars,
Sliding on the washboards,
banging spoons upon our knees;
Jubilee, wasn't it a Jubilee!

We came from the valleys,
we came from the towns,
We came to see the paddlewheel
and the show boat clowns,
We came from the farmlands,
we came from the sea;
Jubilee, wasn't it a Jubilee!
~ Bill Staines, lyrics from "Jubilee, Wasn't it a Jubilee!"
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All words have a history. But some are particularly interesting to explore when it comes to psychology—because they're directly born from it. How many times have you been mesmerized by something, so captured by it that it was like you were in a trance? The word "mesmerize" dates back to an 18th century Austrian physician named Franz Anton Mesmer (1734-1815). He established a theory of illness that involved internal magnetic forces, which he called animal magnetism. (It would later be known as mesmerism.)

~ Margarita Tartakovsky, MS, from the article "Psychology's History of Being Mesmerized" on psychcentral.com
Margarita Tartakovsky small things
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A blue-bell springs upon the ledge,
A lark sits singing in the hedge;
Sweet perfumes scent the balmy air,
And life is brimming everywhere.
What lark and breeze and bluebird sing,
Is Spring, Spring, Spring!

~ Paul Laurence Dunbar from "Spring Song" in THE COMPLETE POEMS OF PAUL LAURENCE DUNBAR
Paul Laurence Dunbar THE COMPLETE POEMS OF PAUL LAURENCE DUNBAR small things
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Whether a plot in a yard or pots in a window, every politically engaged person should have a garden. By politically engaged, I mean everyone with a vested interest in the direction the people on this planet take in relationship to others. We should all take some time to plant life in the soil. Even when such planting isn't easy.

~ Camille T. Dungy in SOIL: THE STORY OF A BLACK MOTHER'S GARDEN
Camille T. Dungy SOIL: THE STORY OF A BLACK MOTHER'S GARDEN small things
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The cricket doesn't wonder
if there's a heaven
or, if there is, if there's room for him.

It's fall. Romance is over. Still, he sings.
If he can, he enters a house
through the tiniest crack under the door.
Then the house grows colder.

He sings slower and slower.
Then, nothing.

This must mean something, I don't know what.
But certainly it doesn't mean
he hasn't been an excellent cricket
all his life.

~ Mary Oliver, "Nothing Is Too Small Not to Be Wondered About" in DEVOTIONS
Mary Oliver Devotions small things
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Beloved Earth, ancient dreamer, keeper of bones and stories—
We, breath in your body, stardust in your veins,
Come before you with hearts both broken and burning.

In this time of the Great Turning,
When despair and possibility dance in the same holy darkness—
May we offer ourselves as imaginal cells in your metamorphosis...

May we be scattered like spores,
Each carrying a fraction of the future,
Each vital, each necessary, each aflame
With particular purpose...

May our courage rise to match the magnitude of these times.

~ Lynne MacNeil, "A Wild Prayer for the World"
Lynne MacNeil sophia
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Memo to Self: Stay close to nature, and to your own creaturely instincts. It's a cold, hard winter out there, but underneath the ice and snow, nature is preparing for an uprising. There's underground work to be done for and with your family and friends, your community, your country, your soul.
~ Parker Palmer
Parker Palmer sophia
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In every moment,
in every event of your life
Wisdom
is whispering to you
exactly what you need to hear and know.

Who can ever explain this miracle?
It simply is.

Listen
and you will discover it
every passing moment.

Listen
and your whole life
will become a conversation
in thought and act between you and
Wisdom,
directly,
wordlessly,
now,
and always.

~ Rumi in LIGHT UPON LIGHT
Rumi LIGHT UPON LIGHT sophia
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I now find myself asking if possibly this is the time, the age, for Sophia:....a God image capable of moving with humanity into the next evolutionary era when the universe will be experienced...as an intimate, interconnected, and diverse communion of subjects...

Divine Sophia defies the supremacy of linear logic and rational analysis, she rejects the pyramid of hierarchical dualism by resisting our dichotomies....and withstanding the compartmentalized, objective mind-set to which we have been educated. In a word, Wisdom undermines the need to control life.

...when Divine Sophia, the Beloved, the Word "awakens"...then absolutely everyone and everything in the universe is experienced as indissolubly and harmoniously interconnected and part of an emerging Mystery that binds everything together.
~ Constance Fitzgerald, "Transformation in Wisdom" in CARMEL AND CONTEMPLATION
Constance Fitzgerald CARMEL AND CONTEMPLATION sophia
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Let this darkness be a bell tower and you the bell.
As you ring, what batters you
becomes your strength
~ Rainer Maria Rilke from "Sonnets to Orpheus II, 29" translated by Joanna Macy in A YEAR WITH RILKE
Rainer Maria Rilke A Year With Rilke sophia
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She is Divine Wisdom. She watches over all people and all things in heaven and on earth, being of such radiance and brightness that, for the measureless splendor that shines in Her, you cannot gaze on Her face or on the garments She wears....She is like the Sun, which none can contemplate in its blazing face or in the glorious garment of its rays. For She is with all and in all, and of beauty so great in Her mystery that no one could know how sweetly She bears with people, and with what unfathomable mercy She spares them.
~ Hildegard of Bingen
Hildegard of Bingen sophia
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Making a home in our hearts,
You are our Companion and Friend...

I accompany those who love You,
that I may grow in wisdom;
I enter into the Silence, into the
Eternal Light,
and listen for your gentle Voice.
~ Nan Merrill, from her interpretation of Psalm 101 in PSALMS FOR PRAYING
Nan Merrill Psalms For Praying sophia
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At the mystical heart of each of the Abrahamic faiths lie teachings about the transformation power of fire and the identification of the Holy One with light. In Judaism, the Shekinah—the indwelling feminine presence of God—took the form of a pillar of fire at night to lead the Israelites through the desert. ....May we let ourselves down into the arms of fire and allow it to melt the armor of our hearts. The excruciating fire of our loneliness and our fear of intimacy. The sweet fire of our longing for union with the Beloved. The purifying fire of radical unknowingness, which all the great mystics assure us is the beginning of knowing God.

~ Mirabai Starr in LIGHTING THE DARKNESS in the Interfaith Observer
Mirabai Starr sophia
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Over the past centuries, the being of Sophia, or feminine Divine Wisdom, has been emerging from the mists of ancient history...to become a sign and mystery of our times.... wherever we turn, we see traces of her coming—as if tracking the fringes of her mantle as it brushed aside the tangled, sclerotic cobwebs of centuries of cerebration. As she draws near, much that was forgotten is reentering consciousness, not only as memory but also from the future, as possibility. It demands that we rethink who we are, whence we have come, and whither we are going.
~ Christopher Bamford in the introduction to ISIS MARY SOPHIA
Christopher Bamford ISIS MARY SOPHIA sophia
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Mystical wisdom derives from an ardent desire to abandon normal intellectual functions so that divine insight may enlighten this ardor and add to it another fire, much stronger, which lifts the burning soul towards an even deeper wisdom.
~ Hugh of Balma in LISTENING TO SILENCE
Hugh of Balma Listening To Silence sophia
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Love is the most universal, the most tremendous and the most mystical of cosmic forces. Love is the primal and universal psychic energy. Love is a sacred reserve of energy; it is like the blood of spiritual evolution.
~ Pierre Teilhard de Chardin in THE SPIRIT OF THE EARTH
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin The Spirit Of The Earth sophia
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To all that is chaotic in you,
let there come silence.
Let there be a calming
of the clamoring,
a stilling
of the voices that
have laid their claim on you,
that have made their home in you,
that go with you
even to the holy places
but will not
let you rest....

Let there be
an opening
into the quiet
that lies beneath the chaos,
where you find the peace
you did not think possible
and see what shimmers
within the storm.
~ Jan Richardson, "Blessing in the Chaos" in THE CURE FOR SORROW
Jan Richardson The Cure For Sorrow sophia
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We know [God] in the breaking of bread, and we know each other in the breaking of bread, and we are not alone anymore.
~ Dorothy Day in THE LONG LONELINESS
Dorothy Day THE LONG LONELINESS hospitality
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...we need to find ways of sharing our intimate experiences of the Mystery, for we are one. It is through one another that we will know more of the Life that flows within us all. It is through sharing our fragments of insight that we will come to a fuller picture of the One who is at the heart of each life.
~ John Philip Newell
John Philip Newell hospitality
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It is unusual a mailbox chokes you up, and because there are too many probable causes—not for the mailbox: for my being choked up—let me simply tell you it was the phrase affixed in those janky silver sticker letters, usually used for a name or address, a little crooked, the V and W peeling slightly, the phrase itself leaning back, lounging, or maybe almost indiscernibly ascending:
TRAVELERS WELCOME
~ Ross Gay in THE BOOK OF (MORE) DELIGHTS
Ross Gay THE BOOK OF (MORE) DELIGHTS hospitality
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Stay with me,
Remain here with me
Watch and pray,
Watch and pray
~ Lyrics from the Taizé chant, "Stay with Me"
hospitality
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The older I get, the more convinced I am that the space between people who are trying their best to understand each other is hallowed ground.
~ Fred Rogers
Fred Rogers hospitality
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We must love them both—those whose opinions we share, those whose opinions we don't share. They've both labored in the search for truth and have helped us in finding it.

~ St. Thomas Aquinas
St. Thomas Aquinas hospitality
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In surrender I clear a space in which something new can grow. I place my faith in something larger than me. I trust.
~ Katrina Kenison in MITTEN STRINGS FOR GOD
Katrina Kenison Mitten Strings For God hospitality
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Someone who is filled with ideas, concepts, opinions and convictions cannot be a good host. There is no inner space to listen, no openness to discover the gift of the other. It is not difficult to see how those "who know it all" can kill a conversation and prevent an interchange of ideas. The more mature we become the more we will be able to give up our inclination to grasp, catch, and comprehend the fullness of life and the more we will be ready to let life enter into us.
~ Henri Nouwen in REACHING OUT
Henri Nouwen REACHING OUT hospitality
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The answer was overwhelmingly consistent: beauty appears when something is completely and absolutely and openly itself.
~ Deena Metzger in WRITING FOR YOUR LIFE
Deena Metzger WRITING FOR YOUR LIFE hospitality
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Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage.

~ Anais Nin in THE DIARY OF ANAIS NIN
Anais Nin The Diary Of Anais Nin hospitality
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Where there is separation,
there is pain.
And where there is pain,
there is story.

And where there is story,
there is understanding,
and misunderstanding,
listening
and not listening.

May we — separated peoples, estranged strangers,
unfriended families, divided communities —
turn toward each other,
and turn toward our stories,
with understanding
and listening,
with argument and acceptance,
with challenge, change
and consolation.

Because if God is to be found,
God will be found
in the space
between.
~ Padraig O'Tuama, "A prayer for reconciliation," in DAILY PRAYER WITH THE CORRYMEELA COMMUNITY
Padraig O'Tuama Daily Prayer With The Corrymeela Community hospitality
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Forgiveness means accepting the core of every human being as the same as yourself and giving them the gift of not judging them... Forgiveness starts with ourselves and extends to others. Accepting that the core of your own being is as precious and wonderful as that of any other person is the greatest gift you can ever give yourself.
~ Joan Borysenko in MINDING THE BODY, MENDING THE MIND
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At this table we sing with joy, with sorrow. We pray of suffering and remorse. We give thanks.

Perhaps the world will end at the kitchen table, while we are laughing and crying, eating of the last sweet bite.

~ Joy Harjo from "Perhaps the World Ends Here" in THE WOMAN WHO FELL FROM THE SKY
Joy Harjo THE WOMAN WHO FELL FROM THE SKY hospitality
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Listen long in the Silence that the Word
may be heard,
that decisions arise from the depths
of your Inner Being where
Wisdom dwells.
For the Spirit of Truth is written upon
gentle and open hearts...

With steadfast love will the Counselor
guide you...
~ Nan Merrill from "Psalm 78" in PSALMS FOR PRAYING
Nan Merrill Psalms For Praying soul fire
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But...winter has an even greater gift to give. It comes when the sky is clear, the sun brilliant, the trees bare, and the first snow yet to come. It is the gift of utter clarity...Winter clears the landscape, however brutally, giving us a chance to see ourselves and each other more clearly, to see the very ground of our being.
~ Parker Palmer in SEASONS
Parker Palmer Seasons soul fire