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Katie Jones Pomeroy

September 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 8)

Dear Friends ~ My young children replay variations on the same stories over and over. They are learning and growing through recurrent dramas of goodness, love, and bravery. In truth, I do the same: playing with the idea of myself.

[Scene 1: The Garden] This playground represents my teetertotter approach to existence, one moment trying to control it and when that breaks me, at first humbly and then jubilantly, marveling at that which is larger and more clever than I. I learn to simply follow the beauty, adding my own weavings, whittlings, and winding foot paths; my own song and silence.

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In the summer at day's end

In the summer
at day's end
we notice our salted skin
(how it clings and crusts as silt deposits)
touch lightly the tomato-red sheen in that space just below the eyes.

Wearied bodies. Sticking flesh. Warmed and weighted eyes. The smell of ourselves.
We are caked with the soil that draws up seeds to plants
and the dampnesses that quench them.
The water runs off us, coffee rich against the porcelain sink.

Who was it that likened sin to dirt? Who declared purity a vast white void?
Who never noticed the gospel of a body
in the summer
at day's end?
~ Joy Houck Bauer
Joy Houck Bauer stories

Our gardens are gifts to us

Our gardens are gifts to us. They can also become our teachers. As guardians of these little patches of the planet, we can learn to work hand in hand with the land to restore each other's health. Every fragment of soil, plant, or tree that becomes recognized, respected, and loved has a healing effect on the entire planet.
~ Mary Reynolds in THE GARDEN AWAKENING
Mary Reynolds THE GARDEN AWAKENING stories

Well-trodden paths from house to house

Raimundo Panikkar ... said the future will not be a new, big tower of power. Our hope in the future is the hope into well-trodden paths from house to house, these well-trodden paths from house to house. That is the image that holds a lot of promise for our future.
~ Brother David Steindl-Rast, OSB from "How to Be Grateful in Every Moment" podcast interview with Krista Tippett
Brother David Steindl-Rast stories

We belong to each other

The Bible is more communal than individual.
Jesus teaches us to pray "Our Father" not "My Father."
Paul uses the phrase, "our Lord" 53 times, & "my Lord" only 1 time.
"Jesus is my personal savior" is not found in Scripture.
We are the people of God.
We belong to each other.
~ Rich Villodas
Rich Villodas stories

All the good in you

When all the good in you
Starts arguing with all the bad in you
About who you really are,
Never let the bad in you
Make the better case
~ Andrea Gibson, "All the Good in You" in LORD OF THE BUTTERFLIES
Andrea Gibson LORD OF THE BUTTERFLIES stories

Where do we begin

Where do we begin?
Begin with the heart
~ Julian of Norwich
Julian of Norwich stories

The best advice I can give

It is a little embarrassing that, after forty-five years of research and study, the best advice I can give to people is to be a little kinder to each other.
~ Aldous Huxley
Aldous Huxley stories

I Meant to Do My Work Today

I thought I'd live a louder life
I'd learn a lot and get it right
I'd rent a loft I'd drink all night
I'd be a living archetype
And in a blinding flash of light
I'd see that one great insight
But silence called me deeper still
Like nothing else ever will
~ Carrie Newcomer from her song, "I Meant to Do My Work Today"
Carrie Newcomer stories

Ash Wednesday

Teach us to care and not to care
Teach us to sit still
~ T.S. Eliot from "Ash Wednesday" in T. S. ELIOT: COLLECTED POEMS
T.S. Eliot T. S. ELIOT: COLLECTED POEMS stories

Please Call Me By My True Names

Don't say that I will depart tomorrow—
even today I am still arriving.

Look deeply: every second I am arriving
to be a bud on a Spring branch,
to be a tiny bird, with still-fragile wings,
learning to sing in my new nest,
to be a caterpillar in the heart of a flower,
to be a jewel hiding itself in a stone.

I still arrive, in order to laugh and to cry,
to fear and to hope.
The rhythm of my heart is the birth and death
of all that is alive...

...Please call me by my true names,
so I can hear all my cries and laughter at once,
so I can see that my joy and pain are one.

Please call me by my true names,
so I can wake up
and the door of my heart
could be left open,
the door of compassion.

~ Thich Nhat Hanh from "Please Call Me By My True Names" in CALL ME BY MY TRUE NAMES
Thich Nhat Hanh Call Me By My True Names stories

This distant image of our tiny world

We succeeded in taking that picture [from deep space], and, if you look at it, you see a dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever lived, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species, lived there on a mote of dust, suspended in a sunbeam. The earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena ... It's been said that astronomy is a humbling, and I might add, a character building experience. To my mind, there is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly and compassionately with one another and to preserve and cherish that pale blue dot, the only home we've ever known.

~ Carl Sagan in THE PALE BLUE DOT
Carl Sagan THE PALE BLUE DOT stories

The truths we tell will make the song

People do meditation to find psychic alignment. That's why people do psychotherapy and analysis. That's why people analyze their dreams and make art. That is why some contemplate tarot cards, cast I Ching, dance, drum, make theater, pry out the poem, and fire up their prayers. That's why we do all the things we do. It is the work of gathering all the bones together. Then we must sit at the fire and think about which song we will use to sing over the bones, which creation hymn, which re-creation hymn. And the truths we tell will make the song.

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estés in WOMEN WHO RUN WITH THE WOLVES
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Women Who Run With The Wolves stories

April 2025 (Vol. XXXVIII, No. 4)

Dear Friends ~ The kids and I stare out the window, watching birds. The juncos are my favorite, presenting in sooty suits, bowing often in a jaunty jig of seed seeking. My son enjoys the sparrows, who descend in numbers that send our feeders reeling. My daughter likes the showy birds—right red cardinals and silence shattering jays.

I am mesmerized in a manner that conjures memories of my own childhood, when wonder came in waves of such intensity it could knock the feet out from under my day, leaving me belly down, drawn to the details of a blade of grass or a grasshopper's legs. As I grew in body, mind, and vision, my sights widened to bigger pictures; a perspective that helped me find myself in academics, civics, and spirituality.

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Stuff your eyes with wonder

Stuff your eyes with wonder, live as if you'd drop dead in ten seconds. See the world. It's more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories.
~ Ray Bradbury
Ray Bradbury small things

Biophilia

Biophilia (noun): A hypothetical human tendency to interact or be closely associated with other forms of life in nature: A desire or tendency to commune with nature
~ Merriam-Webster Dictionary
small things

Doing something small today

Everyone talks about how traveling back in time and doing something small, like killing a butterfly, can drastically change the present, but no one talks about how doing something small today, like planting a tree, can drastically change the future.
~ r/showerthoughts on reddit
small things

Tip toward an enduring good

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely. It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good.
~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes in DO NOT LOSE HEART
Clarissa Pinkola Estes Do Not Lose Heart small things

Small movements

That is the paradox of the epidemic: that in order to create one contagious movement, you often have to create many small movements first.

~ Malcolm Gladwell in THE TIPPING POINT
Malcolm Gladwell THE TIPPING POINT small things

Enoughness

Recognizing "enoughness" is a radical act in an economy that is always urging us to consume more.
~ Robin Wall Kimmerer in THE SERVICEBERRY: ABUNDANCE AND RECIPROCITY IN THE NATURAL WORLD
Robin Wall Kimmerer THE SERVICEBERRY: ABUNDANCE AND RECIPROCITY IN THE NATURAL WORLD small things

The same rapacious curiosity

You have seen so much of the outer world and had so many experiences of people, places, and things—and of course those experiences will keep coming. But now, in the second half of your life, as the outer world seems more unstable and dangerous than ever, we want you to take the same rapacious curiosity that once thrust you all over the planet with a hungry, fascinated appetite, and we want you to turn it inward.

~ Tara Roberts, from Elizabeth Gilbert's Substack "Letters From Love"
Tara Roberts small things

Dance

If I can't dance, it's not my revolution.
~ Quote attributed to Emma Goldman
Emma Goldman small things

Jubilee, Wasn't it a Jubilee!

Jubilee, wasn't it a jubilee!
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
We were singing out together —
shouting revelries.
Jubilee‚ Lord wasn't it a jubilee!

Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!
We were dancing by the river,
dancing by the sea,
Bouncing all the babies,
up and down upon our knees,
Laughing out happy,
crying out free;
Jubilee‚ wasn't it a jubilee!

We were banging on the banjos,
picking on guitars,
Blowing out the bass notes,
on the crockery jars,
Sliding on the washboards,
banging spoons upon our knees;
Jubilee, wasn't it a Jubilee!

We came from the valleys,
we came from the towns,
We came to see the paddlewheel
and the show boat clowns,
We came from the farmlands,
we came from the sea;
Jubilee, wasn't it a Jubilee!
~ Bill Staines, lyrics from "Jubilee, Wasn't it a Jubilee!"
Bill Staines small things

Mesmerism

All words have a history. But some are particularly interesting to explore when it comes to psychology—because they're directly born from it. How many times have you been mesmerized by something, so captured by it that it was like you were in a trance? The word "mesmerize" dates back to an 18th century Austrian physician named Franz Anton Mesmer (1734-1815). He established a theory of illness that involved internal magnetic forces, which he called animal magnetism. (It would later be known as mesmerism.)

~ Margarita Tartakovsky, MS, from the article "Psychology's History of Being Mesmerized" on psychcentral.com
Margarita Tartakovsky small things

Spring Song

A blue-bell springs upon the ledge,
A lark sits singing in the hedge;
Sweet perfumes scent the balmy air,
And life is brimming everywhere.
What lark and breeze and bluebird sing,
Is Spring, Spring, Spring!

~ Paul Laurence Dunbar from "Spring Song" in THE COMPLETE POEMS OF PAUL LAURENCE DUNBAR
Paul Laurence Dunbar THE COMPLETE POEMS OF PAUL LAURENCE DUNBAR small things

To plant life in the soil

Whether a plot in a yard or pots in a window, every politically engaged person should have a garden. By politically engaged, I mean everyone with a vested interest in the direction the people on this planet take in relationship to others. We should all take some time to plant life in the soil. Even when such planting isn't easy.

~ Camille T. Dungy in SOIL: THE STORY OF A BLACK MOTHER'S GARDEN
Camille T. Dungy SOIL: THE STORY OF A BLACK MOTHER'S GARDEN small things

Nothing Is Too Small Not to Be Wondered About

The cricket doesn't wonder
if there's a heaven
or, if there is, if there's room for him.

It's fall. Romance is over. Still, he sings.
If he can, he enters a house
through the tiniest crack under the door.
Then the house grows colder.

He sings slower and slower.
Then, nothing.

This must mean something, I don't know what.
But certainly it doesn't mean
he hasn't been an excellent cricket
all his life.

~ Mary Oliver, "Nothing Is Too Small Not to Be Wondered About" in DEVOTIONS
Mary Oliver Devotions small things

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