Shake hands
You can't shake hands with a clenched fist.
I found I had less and less to say, until finally, I became silent, and began to listen. I discovered in the silence the voice of God.
To become divine is to become attuned to the whole of creation.
"It is better to put one's heart into one's prayer without finding the right words, than to find the right words without putting one's heart into them."