Somebody once said that if you really seek the truth, whatever road you travel, sooner or later you come to God.
~ Valerie Alfeyeva
If we don't know in the depths of our being that God calls us "beloved," we need to. And if we do know it, and it hasn't set us on fire, then we don't know it well enough. Take time daily to be alone and silent before God. And an awareness of your utter belovedness will become a reality for you.